How To Make People Love You

I hired my dating coach when I was 23 years old. And up until that point in my life, I had not been on a single date. And that REALLY bothered me.

But there was something that bothered me EVEN MORE. It bothered me that every day I would go to work and kick some ass, but at the end of the day, I just went home, watched Netflix, and ate dinner – by myself.

I felt like everyone else was off having fun and hanging out with each other, except for me. Nobody was texting me. Nobody was inviting me to hang out. And I tried to organize things on my own, but people just didn't seem interested in spending time with me. So I started to feel left out, very alone, and just unloved.

So when I hired my coach, I told him yes, I want to date. But I also just want people to like me. No, I want people to LOVE me. To cherish me. To be excited to see me. To want to spend time with me. And to want to be friends with me.

But I didn’t think this was possible. I mean, I didn’t have a 6-pack, I didn’t like drinking, I couldn’t do physical activities like hiking or rock climbing, and I certainly didn’t have any crazy stories about all the hot girls I had dated. I thought I needed all these things, so that I could be cool enough to have friends. 

Thankfully, my coach cleared this up for me. Check out my 7 minute speech to find out what advice my coach gave me, and how I use it to form deep, meaningful relationships with a few simple questions.

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Do you freeze up around attractive women? Have you never kissed a girl? Have you never had a girlfriend? Do you feel that everybody else has friends but you don’t? I’ve been there. And it sucks.

Here's my 30 second story: 

I use a wheelchair and I have a degenerative muscle condition. I was always the shy, nerdy kid, and I had ZERO success with women – my first kiss didn't happen until I was 22 years old. I went to an Ivy League University and landed my dream job at Microsoft, but I was miserable. After the girl I was in love with told me, "I don't know how any woman could be attracted to a guy in a wheelchair," I hired a dating coach to turn my life around. Now, my social calendar is booked weeks in advance, and I get to choose the friends that I really want to spend time with. Now, I've been on 60+ dates, I've enjoyed sex and intimacy with several women, and I've had incredible girlfriends. 

If you desire similar experiences, I know I can help you. Get my practical tips for improving your social and dating life by signing up below. I would love to help you, because now that I've experienced these massive improvements in my life, I wish someone would have stepped in much earlier and helped me.

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Amin Lakhanisocial skills